Dating for sucessful women
Ofcourse I am now going to start wondering what is he up to, who is he with, why did he need to lie to me, is he messing around.
This is the worst possible thoughts to be constantly having. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 4 years.
So this is my point to anyone on both sides of this conversation! If you need to lie your hiding something or you need to get out before it gets to the abuse Don’t overlook the facts. You must love yourself and look in the mirror and ask yourself if you are the same? Know the difference, the lesson repeats itself until you learn it.
Men and woman that physically and mentally abuse their spouse and as their doing it and say it’s their fault for them hitting them or verbally abusing them, This is the same thing these men are using lies and then turning it around it around on us and telling us it’s our fault the reasoning why their lying to us! I was married 28 years to a man who lied, thank the lord above for my blessings after my divorce or I would be homeless due to his lies and wickedness. He constantly lies about where he is, doesn’t answer my texts or calls.
A man lying to a woman he is involved with especially when it is an intimate relationship says one thing. Regardless if she expresses herself in a controlled manner. Bottom line is those kind of men have no regards to women’s feelings, they believe they can say things and act as they want and the woman should demonstrate understanding or keep her emotions to herself. Women, speak up however you do it , and if he disappears, then you know what to do. (Because of his back.) There might be alternative treatments available after he sees a Doctor, and has some tests done on his back. I’m working on finding a counselor for me, to have someone to talk to.
I know he’s been hooking up with other women and I believe he knows I’ve been hooking up with others too. There is no reason for anyone to be dishonest or unfaithful.
I have caught my boyfriend lying a few times now, I am now not even sure what is the truth and what is a lie anymore.
I have not lied once to him in our 4 1/2 year relationship. Also he says he is one place and then I find out he was actually somewhere else.
I dont want to leave him, but he is pushing me away and I will eventually have to walk away. I found out that he was dating another young lady and myself for 2 years at the same time. I went back yo him because of the strong feelings I have for him.
But he continues to lie to me and tells me it’s me he wants but he is constantly texting the other lady and telling her he really misses her and wants to be with her.